COME HOME TO YOUR BODY. RECLAIM YOUR PLEASURE. LEAD FROM WHOLENESS.

I work with high-achieving women who feel disconnected from their bodies. Together, we slow down, soften survival patterns, and reclaim pleasure that feels safe and real.

Your body already knows the way back to wholeness.

All she needs is your presence.

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I’m Portia,

Erotic Leadership Coach and Founder of The Bougie Bruja® Method.
I am the bedroom and boardroom’s best kept secret. I work with high-achieving women and gender-expansive leaders who are tired of performing success.

That’s not failure. That’s your body asking for something deeper.

My work helps you shift out of survival mode and into a new kind of leadership, one that centers nervous system restoration, embodied presence, and erotic aliveness.

Erotic leadership isn’t about sex—it’s about leading from your life force.

It’s about reclaiming the wisdom of your body, not just your intellect.

It’s about redefining strength through softness, power through presence, and success through self-intimacy.

This work is for the woman who’s ready to stop proving and start living.
To stop performing her power and start embodying it.
To create intimacy with herself, her vision, and the people she leads.

Through somatic healing, sacred sexuality, parts work, and nervous system practices, I help women come home to their bodies and unlock the truth they’ve been carrying all along.

If you’re ready to lead from the truth of your body—not the story of who you had to be—

I’ll meet you there.

“Before working with Portia, I was stuck in cycles of conflict and second-guessing myself. After our Homecoming Ceremony, I finally felt safe to speak my truth, connect with my body, and meet the woman I’m becoming.”

— Sharon Penaflor, Academic Coordinator

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Safety – Rebuilding nervous system trust and emotional regulation.

Sovereignty – Reclaiming your power, voice, and inner authority.

Sacred Sensuality – Restoring connection to your body’s wisdom and sensual truth.

Somatic Integration – Turning insight into embodied transformation.

Soul Alignment – Living in alignment with your intuition, values, and connection to something greater.

The Bougie Bruja® Method: My Signature Path to Embodied Liberation

You don’t just want more success. You want to feel again.

To be touched—by life, by love, by your own hands.

You want a relationship with your body that feels like home.

You want to remember what it’s like to be fully alive.

This is your invitation.

Not to learn more. But to feel more.

It’s time to come home to yourself.

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